Aug 11, 2009

Anak, rezeki dari Allah

Takdir telah ditentukan untuk kami. Kita merancang, kuasa Allah SWT lebih hebat untuk menentukan segala-galanya.Ya kan.

Checkup sabtu lepas membawa perkhabaran duka. Sekali lagi saya disahkan keguguran. Tapi kali ini kami lebih tabah. Kerana kami sudah bersedia dari segi fizikal & mental.

Kes saya seperti ini :

Between 50 and 70 percent of first trimester miscarriages are thought to be random events caused by chromosomal abnormalities in the fertilized egg. Most often, this means that the egg or sperm had the wrong number of chromosomes, and as a result, the fertilized egg can't develop normally.

In other cases, a miscarriage is caused by problems that occur during the delicate process of early development — for example, when an egg doesn't implant properly in the uterus or an embryo has structural defects that don't allow it to continue developing. Since most healthcare practitioners won't do a full-scale workup after a single miscarriage, it's usually impossible to tell why the pregnancy was lost. And even when a detailed evaluation is performed — say after you've had two or three consecutive miscarriages — the cause still remains unknown in about half of cases.

When the fertilized egg has chromosomal problems, you may end up with what's sometimes called a blighted ovum (now usually referred to in medical circles as an early pregnancy failure). In this case, the fertilized egg implants in the uterus and the placenta and gestational sac begin to develop, but the resulting embryo either stops developing very early or doesn't form at all.

Because the placenta begins to secrete hormones, you'll get a positive pregnancy test and may have early pregnancy symptoms, but an ultrasound will show an empty gestational sac. In other cases, the embryo does develop for a little while but has abnormalities that make survival impossible, and development stops before the heart starts beating.


Source :
BabyCenter

Saya muhasabah diri. Semestinya ada hikmah disebalik setiap kejadian. Redha. Dalam waktu ini,saya perlu pastikan kesihatan fizikal dan mental saya ditahap yg bagus. Supaya badan saya sihat & kuat. Saya positif dalam setiap perkara & sedih bukan teman saya.

Terima kasih buat semua. Suami tercinta, famili & teman-teman yang sentiasa memberi sokongan moral :) Anda penguat semangat saya!

p/s : minta maaf pada semua sebab empunya badan tak sempat nak balas komen anda semua. jangan risau, saya ok & akan terus berblog :)

31 comments:

m@Ri@ said...

fathi..sabar k..maria doakan semoga kalian berdua tabah n kuat..

+fnajiha said...

sorry bout the news :(
will always pray for the best of both of you.. iAllah. ;)

diHa said...

kak long.. byk2 kan sabar k.. Allah itu Adil.. pasti akan ade yg lebih baek nti insyaAllah.. =)

mrs SyeDiz said...

salam fathi,
kuat kan semangat ya.
saya doakan awak sihat, kuat & insyaallah satu hari insyaallaah ada rezeki utk awak & husband.
amin.

Werdah said...

Salam Fathiyah.. sabar ya.. Allah Maha Mengetahui apa yang terbaik buat kita.. bersabar dan berdoa semoga Allah akan gantikan dengan yang lebih baik.

Shifa said...

Alhamdulillah awak redha.. kuatkan diri! kamu memang tabah!

ungu violet said...

saya tau awak kuat fathi, insyaAllah ada rezeki lain kali. awak kena sihat betul ya, jaga diri :)

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nizza-abira said...

fathi,
awk memang kuat dik
moga awk lebih tabah menghadapi ujian ini.
Sesungguhnya Allah tahu apa yg terbaik buat kita semua.
InsyaAllah akan ada rezeki yg lebih baik utk fathi & suami.

take care yang!

NURUL said...

hai saya baru mengikut blog kamu sudah exchanged link pun. saya harap awak tabah yeah fathiyah.

Iena said...

Percaturan hidup, banyak risikonya. Silap langkah, pasti jatuh tersungkur, terduduk, setidak-tidaknya tersadung. Kadangkala sukar untuk bangun meneruskan perjalanan yang masih panjang.Walaupun tidak jatuh tersungkur, tapi sakitnya pasti tetap terasa.

Jgnlah sesekali kita mengalah... Maka tolonglah jiwa, bantulah ragamu bangkit semula tegak berdiri agar dapat kau berlari mengejar apa yang kau cari. InsyaAllah...

i know u are strong dear... like me!!! hehehehe... take care! mmuuuakksssss....

Cahaya said...

Fathi...
Terkejut saya dengar perkhabaran duka ni..Saya tau awak tabah menghadapinya..Hikmahnya Allah tersembunyi kn...
Jage diri elok2 ye:-)

"Fd_kZ" said...

Sabar'la kak eik , DUGAAN tue ALLAH nak bg sebab DIa sayang kat akak.. X per, akak pun muda lagik'kn . jaga diri bebaik . insya Allah , semuanyer selamat. ameen.

easyou said...

take care.. hanya Dia y Maha Mengetahui

~LIZA~ said...

i'm sorry to hear such a sad news.. u take care ok?

*hugs*

Anonymous said...

salam...
i`m ur silent reader...baca blog awak kali ni sangat menyentuh hati saya...
saya harap awak tabah & jgn berputus asa..ingat apa yang baik datang dari Allah dan keburukan dari kite sendiri...
insyAllah ada rezeki kamu nanti fatihah...

dibiuscinta said...

meremang bulu roma saya baca..mana taknya..asalnye nak kongsi gembira tp sebaliknya..apapun sy harap kite sama2 tidak putus asa dan sentiasa menanti rezeki dari Tuhan.. amin...

tia said...

kakak fathiyah.
terkejut baca berita.
hurm,
harap kakak tabah taw!
mesti ada hikmah disebalik ini.
bahaya untuk mengandung sekarang sebab penyakit H1N1 ni mudah merebak kepada ibu yang bersalin.
rezeki kan kak?

tia said...

kakak fathiyah.
terkejut baca berita.
hurm,
harap kakak tabah taw!
mesti ada hikmah disebalik ini.
bahaya untuk mengandung sekarang sebab penyakit H1N1 ni mudah merebak kepada ibu yang bersalin.
rezeki kan kak?

kusuma said...

fathiyah...

bersabar yea...
byk2kan rehat tau...

ada hikmah yg menanti...

Anonymous said...

fathi...
sabarla hadapi dugaan ni...
walaupun kita hanya dapat merasa kehadiran insan y bergelar baby hanya seketika waktu, tp lebih bermakna.....sy pun da 2x gugur mcm fathi,y ke2 bln 4 ari tu gugur..sampai rasa takut utk pregnant lg..xpela, fathi cuma pikir, andainya 'dia' hadir dlm idup kita dlm keadaan y amat menyedihkan, sure 'dia' pun rasa sedih sebab membebankan kita....
sabar & tenangkan diri seketika....fathi pergila holiday ngn hubby..dapatkan nasihat dr doctor lps ni apa y terbaik utk fathi kalo nak pregnant lg..tp, kena btl2 berhati2...maybe keje mcm kita ni y selalu dlm keadaan tertekan akan menyebabkan keguguran gk...
sabar yee....

==>> Mrs. Eeza Herman

astalavista said...

sis...apa yang berlaku ada hikmahnya...jgn cepat putus asa sis...saya sedey..but for me...itu semua ujian daripada Dia..Allah tidak akan menduga hambanya melebihi kemampuan hambanya sendiri..anda salah seorang...smile alwayzz sis..rasa nak jumpa sis je

Iryani Noor said...

Salam Fathi,

sorry to here about your baby... Moga Fathi tabah menghadapi dugaan nie... Allah hilangkan matahari sebab Dia berikan pelangi yang indah..never giveup& be strong..gud luck for the next episode:-)

ALLAH tests us often
and for every pain
He gives us
provided we are patient
Is followed by rich gain
So whenever we feel that
everything is going wrong
It is just ALLAH'S way to make our spirit strong.

su su said...

semoga sabar menghadapi dugaan...

hidayah.yassin said...

salam awak...

takziah dan terus sabar dgn hikmah2 yang belum terlihatkan sekarang ye... nak bagi kamu ber2 hanoeymoon lama2 tu kan...cheers!

p.s.: sedey bila ingat yang bila ppuan n lelaki terlanjur lepas tu lahirkan n buang suka2...ada je kawan2 sy yang kawen vertahun2 belum pun dikurniakan anak... banyak hikmahnya kan? sabar banya2k tau...

susudalambotol said...

awak.. hmmm.. awak sgt tabah. itu je yg mampu saya nak taip masa ni.

saya baru nak tanya khabar awak dan baby.

haih.

puan.farah. said...

fathi, saya silent reader blog ni. awak macam saye. same. xpe lah. xde rezeki lagi. usaha lagi. take care.

saya link awak ye

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