Hantaran Kahwin????

Fuh,tittle mcm gempak jer... :p
I've got this fun & interesting quiz or we can call it sort of survey-lah from my frens
it's all about hantaran...or lebih tpt kuiz brapekah hantaran perkahwinan anda?hehe
so,I'd did it..and my hantaran will be 9k =D
hahaha..saya kira jumlah ni tak la byk sgt memandangkan harga psrn hntrn skg sudah mencecah 10k
(artis-artis msia,anak2 org kenamaan skg,saya kira sudah melebihi dr jumlah itew!!!)

Bg pihak sang teruna,bila sebut bab hantaran ni,sure berpeluh2 sbb memikirkan jumlah yg akan ditetapkan oleh pihak si dara
(kalo sang teruna coming from rich background family,sure there is no problem coz family blh support)
tp,bg yg duit gaji cukup utk keperluan hidup,pastinya ini suatu penyiksaan..argh!!!
and remember my bf story about his fren yg mkn maggi sj sbb nak kmpl duit kawen..poor him ;(
sampai dah nak dkt botak kwn tuh..but,utk si dara yg terchenta,apa sj sanggup diredah
gunung berapi,lautan samudera..huh,dahsyat!!!

whatever it is,kte berbalik kpd Al-Quran & sunnah...
follow what Allah & rasul had guide us...
sebaik2 wanita adalah yg murah maharnya..hantaran cuma adat
so,it is depends pd bakal psgn kte utk tentukan how much dia mampu utk memberi dgn seikhlas hati hadiah hntrn itu sbg tanda perkahwinan
aiman tak kesah =D saya pon tak kesah..ngehehe
yg penting tolak ansur,saling memahami ant satu sama lain

buat renungan semua :
firman Allah SWT, "Di antara tanda2 kebesaran Allah itu ia ciptakan bg kamu psgn dr kalangan kamu sendiri agar kamu hidup dlm keadaan tenang,cinta mencintai,kasih mengasihi & saling menyayangi sesama kamu.Sesungguhnya yg demikian itu merupakan tanda2 (kebesaran Allah) bg kamu yg mahu berfikir" surah ar-rum,ayat 21

p/s : try this quiz ya http://www.ridzwan.com/cgi-bin/survey/sfesurvey.cgi?hantarancalculator2007

SPM!!!

Farhana & adik2nya...(mak kat blkg tgh psn mcm2 tu)

Hari ni..adik saya,farhana menghadapi SPM (tepat kul8 pagi td..1st paper,BM)
demam exam dah bermula!!!
sabtu lepas,kami seisi keluarga melawat adik saya tu..
sbg moral support...supaya adik saya lebih bersemangat utk berjuang..hehehe =D
Dgr amanat dr mak & ayah
pantun 4 kerat....

teringat plak ms saya mengahadapi SPM 7 thn lps..(cptnye ms berlalu!! mcm tak caye je dah 7 thn tinggalkan alam persekolahan :p)
waaaa..kalo blh saya repeat blk SPM..sbb result saya yg kurang memberangsangkan
yelah..akibat byk main & kurang study...ngehehe
saya tak mau lg tido dlm kelas time cikgu mengajar (hehehe..ni attitude saya plg buruk sekali!!!...sume cikgu tau saya suke tido dlm kelas even saya duduk dpn sekali!!! teruk sungguh)
saya nak concentrate supaya saya dpt 10A1...hehe =D
tp,saya kene terima kenyataan bahawa SPM tu hanya sekali seumur hidup
so,peluang saya dah lps...saya ttp bangga & bersyukur (walaupon sedikit kechewa..huhuhu) dgn result SPM saya yg tak seberapa tu...(padan la dgn usaha yg saya dah kerah ms tu...)

utk adik saya,farhana yg sdg berjuang di medan perang..(jihad dlm mencari ilmu)
kak long doakan semoga kakak dpt buat yg terbaik utk exam,yakin & tenang dlm menjawab soalan
semoga Allah SWT memberi petunjuk & mempermudahkan urusan kakak
insyallah,kami sume doakan mudah-mudahan kakak beroleh kejayaan...amin
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On da way blk ke KL kami sempat singgah Umbai...
antara tempat yg famous gak kalo nak makan fresh seafood
kami singgah kat perkampungan nelayan...restoran terapung umbai (btl2 terapung ni ;p)
3 dara pingitan =D
pemandangan cantik..menghadap selat melaka..
especially bila senja..tgk matahari terbenam
sedap hingga menjilat jari :p
wah,kami makan besaq la mlm tu..ikan siakap stim,kepah & kupang msk serai,
sotong goreng tepung,tom yam campur...sedap!!! =D
ada sejenis seafood yg dipgl sepahat/pepahat...unik..
tp,tak oder la..so,tak tau rsnya mcm mn
overall,makanan sedap,tmpt cantik,bersih & menarik...
so,pd sape2 yg sgh umbai,blhla try makan kat situ
harga pun berpatutan...sambil jln2 cr mkn

Maira 8th Birthday

Birthday Girl =D

Today is my youngest sis bday..maira

She turns 8 today..yup,4 of 9 persons in family born in november

so,when nov come it is just like a month of bday party celebration..ngehehe

My mums' bday on 25th while my bro,sopey on 28th..so close right ;p

We didn't plan anything for her..make it suprise..lalala

Sofa bought her a lovely red hair band

I just gave her a card

Kak chik (sabirah) make a nice & delicious moist chocolate cake for her

Homemade cake by kak chik

She was very excited this morning...coz she wanna bring that cake to school..

celebrate her bday wif her classmate & teachers...

And...late in the evening,when I come back from office,I just bought Secret Recipe Classic Cheese cake for maira..

then,when I just arrived at home..I said to her to take a 'things' in my car...

She was so suprise & shout..

wahhhh...kek bday maira la !

(riuh sekampung...) ngehehe

her bday cake & presents

Batik Indonesia =D

Oh,I've got a lovely dovey present from ayah tooo

Ayah bought me Batik Indonesia..(my dad just came back from pulau Bintan,Indonesia which is located @ kepulauan Riau)

So,I'm planning to make a kebaya...fewittt :)

On my Birthday

On last monday,was my 24th birthday..waaa..saya sudah tua lg setahun ;p
Lumrah kehidupan..setiap yg bernyawa pasti melalui peringkat kehidupan yg tlh ditentukan olehNYA..

So,I'm suppose to be mature right...think more wisely...take any words more preciously
Especially advice from family & friends...hehe..I've got to take this one seriously !!
Extra careful in any act to be done..
Think before u done fathiyah..

And...semestinya saya mengharapkan agar tahun2 berikutnya saya akan mempertingkatkan amalan,
berusaha menjadi hambaNYA yg lbh beriman..insyallah
Thanks to my family & frens...for all the sweets wishes on my birthday
I'm so touch with their wishes..especially wish from my little sis,maira..

earthquake motion....hahaha :PI'm just celebrate my birthday with my bf..

nothing special or extravaganva.just the 2 of us..

We met @ KLCC that nite :)
peri-fy ur life..hehe..he decided to have dinner @ Madam Kwan's..but unfortunately the restaurant was full that time..
So,then we just had our dinner @ Nandos...
but,the most touchable moment for me was...when he said....
he : mcm mn agaknya kte celebrate bday awak 20thn lg?
me : hahaha (gelak jahat saya) semestinya saya dah tua la...so,kte celebrate bday dgn anak2 yg berderet2...
he : insyallah...saya hrp mcm ni selalu..and conversation the goes on...


Then,I've got my present...ops.. a bag full of presents...hehe
I've got the "things" that I really wanted!!! dah lama mengidam.. :P


A man always seek for happiness..but the only way to reach happiness is when we give our love to others people more than their love to us... :)
I'm happy..I'm feeling glad..I've got sunshine in a bag ;p
Thanks Allah....

Suratan Atau Kebetulan

Sesuatu yg tak disangka
Sering kali mendatangi kita
Itukah suratan dlm kehidupan
Atau sekadar satu kebetulan

Kita asyik membicarakan
Persoalan hidup & pilihan
Serta kejujuran semakin berkurang
Masih tiada bertemu jwpn

Walau kita dihadapkan
Dgn berbagai pilihan
Mengapa sering trjadi
Pilihan tak menepati

Hingga amat menakutkan
Menghadapi masa depan
Seolah telah terhapus
Sebuah kehidupan yg kudus

Pertemuan sekali ini
Bagi diriku amat bererti
Tetapi ku bimbang utk menyatakan
Bimbangkan berulang kesilapan
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Em,I luv to hear this song..lagu lama byk menyimpan sentimental value
right now it seems like this song related with my life
it doesn't related to my relationship life but...my others part of life...career

Yesterday I got an offer to work with company Z..
and of course la I was really happy...
yelah,setelah sekian lama mencari keje ditmpt yg lbh baik dr skg,
bertungkus lumus menghntr resume sbyk yg mungkin,
dgn bersusah payah menghadirkan diri utk sesi interview...
akhirnya...sume pnt lelah & pengorbanan saya selama ni...
membuahkan hasil..alhamdullilah...

Tetapi,setelah sumenye kelihatan hampir pasti...
saya tibe2 rs tak sdp hati...ada yg tak kene..
jauh disudut sanubari saya merasakan tidak tenteram
something..somewhere is not right!

Saya mula mencari jwpn utk semua persoalan yg tak terungkai ini
Dan...akhirnya saya menemui petunjuk & jwpn

Kesimpulan...

'Apabila kita mengejar kemewahan dunia,kita akan kerugian di akhirat kelak..Jika kita mengejar saham akhirat,insyallah Allah SWT akan memberikan kedua-duanya (dunia & akhirat) kpd hambaNya'

Guest

Hari ni,saya & family menerima tetamu pertama yg bertandang ke rumah kami
sempena lebaran thn ni
so,as usual,mak & me always planning & listing all the dishes & menu for our guest
before that,smlm jenuh gak kami membersihkan rumah,mengemas ape yg ptt
(rumah saya tersgtla berselerak..mcm tongkang pecah..ngehehe ;p)
ckp psl menu ni..biasanye saya & mak planning nak msk makanan beratla..
mcm nasi,mee @ bihun & ape2 yg sewaktu dgnnya ;)

For today,we made nasi ayam..my mums chicken rice..hehe
(mcm prnh ku dgr,tp di mn ya???)
our 'guest' will be coming around 2pm..
so,me & mak started preparing the nasi ayam @ 10.30am
dlm kul 2 tu,br sumenye complete..
ms tu our 'guest' dah ada kat dpn pagar rumah ler..huhuhu
nasib baik on time..kalo tak kelaparan la en.S ;p
(teringat keenakan nasi ayam mak azie yg sungguh menyelerakan itu..hehe)
(tiap2 kali raya,mst mak azie msk juadah fav 10 bdk hitam ni..best..sedap!)

Actually,our 'guest' is my friend..erm,special friend..erm,special boyfriend..
(kome paham jelah ye ;p)
this is 1st time ever I'm introduce 'someone' to my parents :)
yeah,I think it's the right time to 'concrete' our relationship..hehe
alhamdullilah,everythings goes smoothly..peacefully :)
I just let my parents borak2 with him..interview ape yg ptt..ngehehe
around 4pm,our 'guest' pon meminta izin utk beransur pulang..(dah pnt berborak yee..)

after that...sesi post mortem..haaa??? yg ni part plg berdebar2..
yelah,dlm kepala otak aku ni dok asyik fikir ayah & mak blh terima si dia ke??
ayah & mak berkenan tak dgn pilihan kak long ni??
adakah si dia cukup syarat nak jd menantu ayah & mak??
hehehe..mcm2 lg yg aku dok fikir..and the results..jeng jeng jeng
alhamdullilah,ayah & mak dgn hati terbuka menerima si dia as menantu to be..

dgn ini,saya berasa lega & gumbira..thanks ayah & mak..luv both of u so much :)
insyallah,semoga pertemuan hr ini membawa seribu rahmat & keberkatan dr Allah SWT..

p/s: I can't upload any raya photos at this moment due to blogspot problem
sorry guys..

Salam Aidilfitri

Salam..hi ;)
so,how's ur raya? hopefully sumenye ok..insyallah
so,this year korang beraya kat mn? @ kg or bandar?
tak kisah la kat mn pun,yg penting kte bermaaf-maafan,ziarah sanak saudara

as usual,tiap2 thn saya & fmly mmg blk kg beraya
tgh mlm tpt kul12 (12/10/2007) saya & fmly bertolak blk ke kg..
actually our journey end at mak chu house @ ipoh..bersahur kat sana
our planning bertolak tg mlm coz nak elak jammed..tp,end up..jammed gak..
but it was not so bad compared with last year..at least ayah tak penat sgt drive mlm.
we arrived ipoh @ 4am.4hours from bangi to ipoh..kalo time biasa 3jam je

dlm kul12pm,kteorg & fmly mak chu trs gerak ke taiping..
tp,tok tak tau pon yg kteorg sume nak serbu umah tok
sj nak suprise kan tok..hehe ;)
mmg tok terkejut pon bila anak cucu dia sume smpai.. ;p
lps berbuka puasa,kteorg buat BBQ..sedap..biasala..of course resepi saya ;p hehe

pg2 raya,sume bersiap2..pakai bj raya..gi solat sunat hr raya..
bersalam-salaman,maaf-maafan
then,br la balun makan juadah raya..best.. ;)
smpaikan saya & adik2 sume sakit perut kul4pg..hehe
bergilir2 gi toilet..toilet kat kg bkn dlm umah tau..tp kat luar..kene bwk torch light..hahaha
plg lawak bila adik saya menjerit2 kat dlm toilet sbb ada katak besar kat situ..hehe
(aku pon geli gak dgn katak... ;p) sian dia...

this year,is 2nd year saya memberi duit raya..hehe..tp,saya still dpt duit raya lg..ngehehe ;p
for my siblings..more than the others la.. :)
seronok bila kte plak dpt bg duit raya..even tak seberapa..
tp,pemberian seikhlas di hati itula yg plg penting & diberkati..insyallah

to all my frens,rsnye blm terlmbt to wish salam aidilfitri
maaf zahir & batin jika ada salah & silap,terkasar bahasa..
terlanjur perbuatan yg myb tak disengajakan
semoga lebaran kali ni membawa seribu rahmat & keberkatan buat kita semua
jemputla dtg ke rumah ye ;)