Jun 15, 2011

Gain weight vs Loose weight

Hello ;)
Sorry lama tak update blog. Macam-macam nak gebang nih, slowly lah ye. Pelan-pelan kayuh. Heee. Bila dah ada anak, automatik otak pun ligat fikir pasal anak. And maybe entry blog also will change a bit. Kene include about parenthood, mommyhood & baby jugak kan. Betul tak mommies? Hehehe ;p

Back to our topic, right now my concern is all about WEIGHT!

My current status :

Fathiyah : Berat haku toksah la tanya. Sama berat dengan mak gajah. Uwaaaa! I’m still struggle nak loose excessive weight. Aih, kan bagus kalau den boleh transfer semua lemak nih kat Nuha. Sonang hati den. Hehehe ;p Off this topic. Kita gebang in next entry ya.

Nuha : After Nuha first month check up last 2weeks, I need to make sure my baby gain a LOT of weight. Dipendekkan cerita, berat Nuha masa lahir = 2.45kg, then drop to 2.13kg due to dehydration. Nuha demam & hilang banyak air on day 4. Kene tahan wad NICU semalam kat Hospital Putrajaya. Mamanya semalaman lah menangis. Huhu. Sedih giler meroyan bila terpisah with my baby. Now I know that feeling ;( The problem comes disebabkan cuaca terlalu panas bulan lepas kan. Orang dewasa macam kita pun tak tahan, ni pulak baby. After all, syukur Nuha recover cepat & got no health problem.

From previous check up, berat dia 2.8kg. I’m fully breastfeed Nuha. She bf dalam 1-2hours. Pelekapan dah betul. She can suck very well. Bf period : 15mins to 30mins. Lepas bf biasanya dia akan terlena & give a sign that she’s already full. Next month, berat dia must reach 4kg (ikut teori & graf). Boleh ke Nuha reach her goal? Kita tunggu & lihat next month. Nuha ni memanjang, bila nak melebar pulak sayang? ;) Hehe.

I should stop worried. My mum said, every babies is different, yang penting your baby is health. Betul kan?

Anyway, kalau siapa ada petua untuk memontelkan baby, share with me ya. Jangan petua memontelkan mama pulak. No no no. Please lemak, go away ;p

May 19, 2011

Nuha's Birth Story

5May2011
Appointment pregnancy checkup kat Klinik Kesihatan & Hospital An-Nur as usual. Doc Klinik Kesihatan cakap my baby dah engaged, tapi Dr.Khamsiah An-Nur cakap baby belum engaged. Tengahari, singgah my parent house & pekena Laksa. Petang, singgah my PIL house & tibai Mee sup pulak. Hehehe ;p

6May2011
1am-5am : Sejam sekali terjaga. Asyik ulang ke toilet je. At first, I tot normal la. Sebab memang masa pregnant asyik terjaga malam & ke toilet. Tapi, takla sekerap ni. Ada jugak rasa pelik. Tapi takde rasa sakit. So, saya pun ulang tido macam biasa.

5am-5.30am : Start rasa sakit. Macam period pain. Masa ni saya dah kejutkan Syah. I started to time the contraction. Every 10minutes it will come & attack. Hehe.

5.30am : Sah contraction nak bersalin ni. So, kami called family & inform pasal ni. Mak suruh gi hospital. Saya cakap dengan Syah nak gi hospital lepas Subuh, nak solat & mandi dulu. I decided to have a quick breakfast. Unfortunately, kat rumah dah habis stock roti. Teringat pisang abu yang saya amik kat rumah mak semalam. Ape lagi, sambil apply breathing technique, sambil tuh bancuh tepung & goreng pisang. Bila sakit, hembus nafas 3kali. Lepas tu, continue menggoreng pisang. Hahaha :p

6am : Mandi, then solat. Solat pun sambil duduk sebab dah rasa sakit sangat. Breakfast pisang goreng & air zam zam. Hehe. Keluar tanda which is a spot of blood masa saya kencing. I was like, ni dah betul-betul nak beranak nih. I felt nervous & excited at the same time. Oh, masanya sudah tiba akhirnya ;)

6.30am : Sempat kemas & grab an important things to bring to hospital.

6.45am : Register kat kuanter Wad Bersalin.

7am : Waiting at Pre-Labour room. Nurse checked my blood pressure & pasang CTG on my tummy. Contraction became stronger. Loose track kekerapan contraction. Sepanjang dalam bilik ni, husband tunggu kat luar. So, I make myself calm dengan baca Doa Nabi Yunus, Ayat Kursi & Zikir. Masa ni terfikir, kalau bukaan baru 1cm or 2cm, sempatla den nak gi Hospital An-Nur. Hehehe.

7.30am : Dr check bukaan. Dah 5cm to 6cm. I was really shocked at that time. Macam tak percaya je. Sakit makin lama makin kuat. Sorang Dr treat & standby next to me. Akar Siti Fatimah (air selusuh) tak sempat nak rendam pun. Kena tunggu labour room dibersihkan. Nasib baik ada bilik kosong. Syukur.

8am : Waktu ni sakit berganda-ganda. Terasa tekanan kat bahagian bawah. Masuk labour room. Kelam kabut tukar baju.

8.15am : Dr check bukaan sekali lagi & it was already 10cm. Fully dilated! Waduh, pantas sungguh. Memang terasa nak teran sangat-sangat dah. Tapi Dr suruh tahan. Everytime rasa sakit, saya genggam tangan Dr. Hehehe. Dr cakap, tak sempat nak offer Epidural dah haku nak terberanak ;p

8.30am : Dr pecahkan air ketuban. Instantly terus rasa nak meneran. Ada 2orang Dr assist saya masa tu. Doctor instruction at that time was so helpful to me. Yelah, dalam waktu macam ni, memang perlu ada orang yang ingatkan kita apa nak buat. Tarik nafas, then hold your breath. Time bila nak push and so on. Syah kat luar tengah isi borang.

8.37am : 2kali push, lahirlah Nuha. Tak sempat nak episotomi. Nasib baik terkoyak cantik. Hahaha. Nurse jerit panggil Syah masuk, Encik...isteri encik dah nak bersalin dah. Cepat! Cepat! Syah masuk je, saya dah selamat lahirkan Nuha, Dr pegang Nuha & gunting tali pusat. Everybody in the labour room say congratulation to us. Keluar dari perut, Nuha terus menangis & terkencing. Meleleh la air mata cheq sebab terharu. Tak sangka dah selamat bersalin. Lagi terharu bila husband cium & say thanks for everythings. Sebak tau. Dr bagi saya dakap baby. Saat paling indah ;) Lepas semuanya settle, Syah azan, iqamat & tahnik Nuha.

Tu lah cerita pengalaman bersalin saya. Express from A-Z. Alhamdullilah, Allah permudahkan urusan saya melahirkan Nuha. Ralat sikit sebab tak sempat nak bergambar bagai pasal kelam kabut. Hahaha ;p Kalau boleh rewind masa, saya nak je record setiap saat tuh. Tak sangka juga saya boleh tahan sakit bersalin. Thanks to all Doctors & nurses Hospital Putrajaya. Jasamu dikenang.

I now feel complete :)

May 15, 2011

Assalamualaikum to the world!

Alhamdullilah,
pada 6 May 2010, 8.37am, pagi Jumaat yang penuh rahmat & barakah,
saya telah selamat melahirkan my little princess di Hospital Putrajaya via natural & normal delivery. Episotomi pun tak sempat, saya terberanak express. Hehe :p
Syukur, both of us are doing fine now. Oh, Berat baby = 2.45kg. So petite kan. Comel macam mama dia. Heee :p


And her name, Nuha Binti Syahrul Nizam. Nuha means Intelligent. Reference : Surah Thoha, ayat 54 & 128.

Ok, till then. Next entry cheq cerita pasal kisah bersalin. Hehehe. I enjoy my confinement period. Syok gile dapat dok rumah. Haha ;D

Apr 29, 2011

3rd Trimester

My 9 miracle months will end soon. Today, I’m reaching my 36weeks. Sapa tau esok lusa, maybe baby will come out & say hi to everyone. Heee. Mak saya dulu, bersalin anak perempuan semuanya awal. If I follow her step, get ready jelah. Baby head already kat bawah. Alhamdullilah.

At this stage, perasaan bercampur-campur. Happy, excited, nervous and so on. I bet, for those yang dah pernah deliver baby, sure tau this feelings kan. After been through this pregnancy journey by myself, a lot of things I learned. Syukur & thanks Allah for the gift, rahmat & rezeki ini. For sure, I’m gonna miss my pregnancy moments. Dengan bermacam-macam kisah, drama & sandiwara. Keh keh keh =p


Our bag already packed. Baby room dah kemas & ready. Saja je omaknya mengada-ngada nak buat baby room. Nanti baby tido dengan omak jugak. Hehehe ;p

Sepanjang third trimester ni, my baby grown up so fast. Her movement was different nowadays. Kalau dulu just rasa dia tendang or tumbuk. Tapi sekarang rasa tangan or kaki baby menggeliat etc. Perut akan bergoyang & senget benget bila baby aktif. Funny. Hehe. Cepat rasa penat. Sebelum solat, kena pastikan perut tak full. Kalau perut full, then solat, sure mengah, tak cukup nafas.

Rasa sakit, lenguh badan tu, for me biasa lah kan. Asam garam orang mengandung. Kadang-kadang saya rasa sakit pinggang masa tido, sakit belakang time duduk kat office, betis tend to cramp masa tengah tido & macam-macam lagi. I’d a bit water retention at my feet. Kaki dah kembang. Syukur, I never had heartburn until this stage. HB reading was the highest ever since 1st check up, 13.6. Unbelievable ;p

Attend Antenatal Class. It was a great class with a very good experience to a first time parent like us. All the speakers were very expert in their field & their session was very interesting. We really enjoy & had a good time there. I already practice the breathing technique & pelvic exercise for preparation in labour room soon.

At 34weeks, I’d my 1st Braxton Hicks contraction. It comes once within 1hour. Feel pain at the serviks area. Gile cuak masa mula-mula rasa contraction ni. A whole day jugak la the contraction was on & off. Starting from that day, I do feel a mild contraction at least once in a day. Saja ye dia main-main & testing omak ;) Hehehe.

Hmmm, kalau ikutkan hati, rasa nak start cuti & stay kat rumah je. Rasa tak sabar nak beranak pun ada. Heee. Wish me luck ya =)

Apr 26, 2011

29years

Dear Abang,

Today you will end your 2series age. Next year, you gonna reach 3series already. Hahaha ;p Insyallah, in a few days/weeks you'll get another title that people proudly called Ayah :) So sweet rite. Alhamdullilah. Syukur for all rezeki & blessing from Allah. Oh, I'm pretty sure that you're more excited than I am at this moment. Just be patient & doakan yang terbaik for us. We gonna meet our little one soon and I hope she will be the most priceless gift ever to both of us.

Btw, this song is dedicated to you. Ben E.King - Stand By Me (in the labour room..hehehe ;p)

Love,
Mommy & Baby

Mar 22, 2011

2nd trimester

Bye bye 2nd trimester. Welcome 3rd trimester!
Suddenly I feel panic. Got many things to do & prepare! Dang. Itulah, suka buat gheja last minit. Ngehehe =p

I feel more relax & calm in 2nd trimester. Rasa sekejap je masa berlalu. Ends of weeks 14, I started to enjoy my pregnancy moment. Selera makan makin ok. Tapi, still tak boleh makan banyak. Kalau makan banyak, mula la rasa loya, nak muntah atau senak perut. Tak selesa. Kadang-kadang, bila makanan tak sesuai, ada jugak la muntah.

Bila masuk 18weeks, selera makan sangat lah meluap-luap. Saya dah start masak sendiri. Before this tak larat + tak lalu nak masak. Bau bawang tumis pun buat den poning. No more makan kedai. Mama & baby need a healthy homey foods! =) I start consume Omega 3, katanya Omega 3 ni bagus untuk pembentukan saraf-saraf dalam otak. Ape yang bagus den belasah saje. Hehehe.

Pasal mengidam, biasa la, nama pun mengandung kan. Heee. Mengidam yang pelik-pelik tu takdelah. Just teringin makan makanan biasa. Alhamdullilah, setakat ni apa yang saya teringin nak makan tu, dapat la makan. Rezeki. Syukur.

At weeks 20, I feel the baby kick. Actually, end of weeks 17 saya dah start rasa something, tapi masa tu macam confius lah, betul ke tu baby yang tendang? Or just angin kus-kus dalam perut. Hehehe. Almaklumlah, sejak pregnant ni, kekerapan terkentut adalah kuasa tiga. Heee. Its normal rite =D. Oh, baby also recognises ayah voice & touch. Good. Bila Syah pegang perut, baby pun start la tendang perut omaknya. Boleh tahan kuat jugak la. Ni mesti sebab bapaknya suka bola. Hehehe.

Sakit urat kat peha dah hilang. Alhamdullilah. Now, I can drive like Micheal Shumacher & walk like a supermodel. Hahaha. I started to use Bio Oil. No signal of stretch mark so far but I think prevention is better than cure right. I tend to pee like once in an hour. Kerap kan. Even masa tidur pun wajib terjaga at least sekali. Mula rasa sakit tulang rusuk (especially rusuk kiri) masa entering 24th weeks. I guess this happened because my baby makin membesar & menolak tulang rusuk. 1st injection for kancing gigi @ 24th weeks.

Masa 1st trimester, most of the time saya melepak kat rumah je. Bila dah 2nd trimester ni, dah berani jalan-jalan. First time I banyak berjalan masa kat Sunway Lagoon. Fuh. Quite tiring rupanya. Mengah jugak la berjalan walaupun perut teman tak berapa besar. A day after, kaki terasa lenguh. Hehe. But I guess it was a good exercise & I do enjoy it.

In 2nd trimester, I’ve got fever & food poisoning. Seharian muntah. At one stage tu sampai muntah hijau. Erkkk =( Masa ni memang badan terasa sangat lemah. After the fever gone, I’ve got cough pulak. Aduh, nasib badan. Thanks Allah for protecting my baby from any harm. Takut jugak kalau the food poisoning, fever & cough will effect my baby. Risau. For those yang pregnant, if you got fever or any sakit, go & seek the doctor. Jangan makan ubat sebarangan. Bahaya tau. Paling penting, jaga pemakanan. Never ever makan any raw seafood or half cooked dishes. It’s too risk. Like me, rasanya food poisoning ni disebabkan saya makan kerang. Huhuhu.
So far, baby development is good. My baby is very active one. Selalu menendang or menumbuk. Yang mana satu pun den taktau la. Hehe. Masa dia kecik oklah. Bila dah masuk 25weeks and above, sakit jugak perut den bila dia tendang. I wonder bila masa dia tido. Time den tido dia dok main-main. I guess she really love to play one. For us, memang excited everytime scan our baby. Sebab dia akan show of her skill & stunt. Subhanallah. Some of the moments that we never forget masa tengok dia swimming in my womb, garu dagu (maybe gatal kot), yawning, sucking her mouth & lips and also blink her eyes. Oh, her chin shapes just like mine. Hehe. Her head, stomach & hips size was just fine. Alhamdullilah.

Oh, 1 more thing, I’ve got an overweight issue in my 2nd trimester. Nak post pasal ni in next entry. I’ll share my stories & experience with all of you. Ececeh. Takde la cite apa pun, saja lah nak ber-emo skit. Hahaha =p

Mar 16, 2011

Baby Bump!

I’m entering 30th weeks this week. Alhamdullilah. So far so good.

Ramai yang dah tanya apa gender baby saya. Dah banyak kali percubaan nak tengok gender baby, but failed. Baby refused to show it. Dia malu. Ada je helah & gelagat dia. Memang auta betul my baby. Doc pon puas pujuk, dia takmau jugak show the ‘barang’. Penyegan rupanya anak den nih. Macam omaknya la jugak. Keh keh keh =D Finally, semalam baby co-operate well masa tengah scan.

And.... insyallah, it's gonna be a baby girl!

Speaking about my baby bump, some of you requested my pregnancy photo kan. Sorry, sejak mengandung ni, saya takde mood nak pose. Hilang semua aura gedix. Hahaha. Oklah, for the first time ever… Now, I’m presenting you… My not-so-big baby bump. Hehehe =p


29weeks

Tell you the truth, in 1st trimester, my face was so pale. Jadi, haruslah menjauhkan diri dari camera. Heee. Masuk 2nd trimester, muka dah glowing gitu. Ececeh. Perasan =p But, then malas tahap gaban nak snap any pics. Heee.


From left : Me at 22weeks, Me at 27weeks. Any different? Hahaha.

I think I mewarisi baka perut kecik from my mum. My bump not show up until 18 weeks. Jenuh la cheq tunggu bila perut nak buncit. Hehehe. But then, bila perut dah membesar, the rest of my body juga tidak mahu ketinggalan pembesarannya. Alahai. The most changes part was my breast & buttock. Grrrr. Geram tau. Besar bagai juara, dah macam Pamela Anderson + J.Lo. huhuhu. And of course tak seksi langsung lah. Huaaaa… sabor jelah. My cheek was sooo tembam kan. Pipi bulat macam kuih pau dah. Hahaha. Den pasrah.


Insyallah, this weekend kami nak marathon shopping barang baby + jengok apa yang ada kat Motherhood Expo kat Mid Valley tuh. Banyak lagi belum beli. 70% stuff need to buy! Baju sehelai pun tarak ada nih. Pi survey semua kedai, tapi dok tengok sajalah. Kalut betoi! Hehehe =p